WAW sent me a quick message earlier today, ahead of our meeting:
"btw don't worry about having everything done tomorrow, we'll work through what we work through!"
Dreading the conversation today, but it is what it is.
One thing I see some mixed messages on where I read other threads is the idea of friendship. I see some people advocating clarity around "I have no interest in being your friend", and other who advocate that friendship is at the heart of any relationship, and once you get to the level of friendship-level meetups, it offers an opportunity to demonstrate the 180s and so on.
I'm obviously a long way from that, but any thoughts? I'd have a very hard time being her friend right now or anytime soon because of the hurt of the S, but I do want to keep doors open if I can.