Alrighty well just had a talk with W during child exchange. We were going over schedule and she asked about our plans together for the 4th of July. She was expecting some cake but will not get any.
W: so what are we doing together for the 4th Me: I’ve got plans actually. W:but I thought we were going to all go together Me: I don’t want to do things as a family anymore. W: but it’s important for S to know... (trailed off) Me: that we are friends? W: yes Me: I have no intention of being your friend. Have a good one!
Walked away after that. I tried to say it as upbeat as I could and I don’t think I sounded harsh or mean. I know I should have probably made this a shorter convo but oh well. Didn’t really see her reaction but I guess it doesn’t matter! No more cake.