So update for today.

H was texting D11 asking what we were up to(not sure who started the convo). We were out to lunch with a friend and her kids. Well he was in old town at mechanic shop and was going to head to our town and asking if we wanted to meet him. Well curiosity might kill the cat, but ok I'll bite. Meet up at store after lunch. Picked up a few things H paid. Drove back to my house in separate cars. He proceeded to hang out for a couple hours. Joked with kids and dogs. Joked with me and had nornal conversation. My new cc came in and he set that all up. Curiouser and couriouser. Then when he finally left about 20 mins ago he hugged the kids and said by love y'all. He lingered at the door STARING AT ME until I looked up and he said see y'all later.

I have no expectations at this point. But wow.

Oh and tranfered most of his education benefits to the kids and ME. w t f.... I swear I am going to change my name to Alice because I have just fell down a rabbit hole.


Me: 36 H: 37
M: 16 T: 17
Kids: S15 D14 D11
BD: July '18
OW confirmed Nov '18 (he told me)
H moved out Jan '19