Thanks ovr, it's interesting that the advice I get IRL is the opposite. I'll sleep on it for a few days. No rush.
People IRL are subjective. They are too close to the situation. Most will tell you what you want to hear. Or will tell you what they think will relieve your pain the fastest.
I don't know you from Adam. I can look at your sitch objectively and tell you what works with no preconceived notions and no intentional or unintentional ulterior motives.
Quick story:
Guy I knew was going through his W's PA. She was cheating on him with someone, he didn't know who. He met up with a good friend and started confiding. The friend was offering advice. "Just leave her, D her, and never look back!"
Turns out the friend was the OM and was telling the LBH what he, the OM, wanted so that the guy's W would be completely free!
Be vary wary of IRL people's advice.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
