I know this is tough but you have to be careful acting out of emotions. So you tell her you want her out so she is for an apartment and then you say are you sure that’s what you want.
Now she gets an apartment because that’s what she really wants and she gets to play the victim telling everyone you threw her out.
I know it’s hard because you’re just trying to stop the pain but again when you pursue a woman who has rejected you and ripped your heart out it lowers your value in her eyes.
Back to DB and no contact unless she initiates. Then your response should be I need time to think.
