So just wanted to run a script by you guys. I’ve been reading a lot of the guides of Sandis about WW. Now I believe my W is WW due to her personality changes, activity changes, new group of friends, abandoning old group of friends and resentment. Even though I did not have anything more than suspicion about OP before we separated I am aware it is likely that now separated there is OM.
I need to focus on being more firm with her and stopping all cake eating. I told you guys about her request that we do 4th of July as a family, but seeing how she is WW I need to deny this request. So I was considering different scripts for when she brings it up again. It is now NC day 4. NC as in she hasn’t talked or texted me at all and I’m not initiating.
Should I go the really firm script: No I will not be going because you are involved with OM. (Even though I have no idea or clue about OM)
Or not even mention OM: No I will not be going because we are no longer a family.
