Updating:

Just got back from court, W was very friendly very nice, asking me all kinds of questions about how my family is... etc.etc. She asked me if i worked last night I said no, she said oh good so your not tired. She then told me she is going to lunch with D20, I said great. Again the convo was light and I validated her throughout... no pressure from me at all. She did say that S23 and S22 are not talking to her, I said I am sorry I hope that changes.

My L and her L finally arrive and then the negotiation starts, W then agrees to take 5K less than agreed upon and wants me to keep the house for another year. I have 60 days to think about it. So we are pretty much done when something occurred to me, if I agree to this I will lose my health insurance. My L then says well hold on let me see if they will agree for a 12 month seperation agreement. W agreed with the 12 month separation agreement. All ppw is being written up for me to review and I have 60 days to agree.

I think this is all positive for me and I am very happy!!


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20