Hey vik, you need to stick to DB. Any of those changes you are saying won´t help you at this moment. Go dark and answer kids related questions only.
I was a WWH. There´s no peace on the dark side. There´s a lot of instability. It´s about what brought us there. There´s guilt, sadness, a fantasy world developing from limerence, lies and deception. And you don´t have the calm needed to figure out who you are until the waves of life are over you. Then you get drowned...or you swim toward the coast.