As we say that with time we LBHs get used to being alone and by working on ourselves, we are able to live the new life and start enjoying that. Isn't it the same for WW as well. She is also having this freedom now, free to be with OM anytime she wants, freedom to make choices that benefit her, freedom from the pain they believe we LBHs have given them (specially after separation)? Don't they get used to this new life and think this is good life and there is no need to be back to the MR? or is it different for WWs.
Hi Vik, I'm in the same boat as you, and have a lot of the same questions. It's tough, so please know you're not alone in your struggle and that others are rooting for you.
In my case, I'm telling myself that grass isn't always greener. What's new and exciting doesn't stay that way forever, and there's absolutely going to be days where WAW is going to pine for the stability, comfort, and shared life that you two had. My understanding - and it hasn't happened for me, yet - is that these things are more predictable than they seem, and your best shot at reconciliation is to let WAW come to those realizations herself, only to find an improved, confident, and independent man staring back at her.
