Updating:

After I posted earlier I recieved a call from my L asking me did I reach out to my W? I said no I have not, her exact words were "Get off the phone with me and call her" " You have to bite the bullet here and take your chances"... ok so after some talking with L I called (no texting) she didnt answer. I left a message, about 10 minutes later she calls back... She says Hey... I Hey how are you... very pleasant very friendly... I would swear she was like the old W I used to have... we start talking about the L's and how can we come to a better arrangement for our children. I said well you are demanding 30K up front I just cant come up with that money, she says I dont want that money up front. and so its goes like this...

She says:

I just want whats best for he kids...

I just want the dog to have a place to live...

I dont hate you at all....

I moved out to help my mom...

A few times she starts get emotional but I stayed on track... I dont think she wants back in the marraige but something is different.

I asked if she could please help with the dog and she said yes, I then said you are welcome here anytime you want to visit the kids and dog. She gets a little emotional on the phone. chokes up... The conversation lasted 30 minutes bc her lunch break was up, she said I will see you tomorrow, I said ok lets see if we can come up with a better option then just selling the house she said ok... we shall see what happens tomorrow...

This is the first convo I have had with her in 10 months!


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20