So we are at the point of negotiating our D and for the third time I have been asked to reach out to W by both L's to start communicating. W has stated through her attorney that she doesnt like that we dont talk and would like to start communicating again. This happened at the courthouse about a month and a half ago then on June 3rd and now again yesterday. I have decided that its just not possible for me to buy her out and I want to sell the house. She has come back with delay tactics everytime. It takes 2-3 weeks to get a response from her and her L.
We have court tomorrow and my L said that she still wants you to reach out to her. I just dont know if I can/or want to do that.
Please Vets should i text her? What is there to talk about? Pretty much the tough decisions have been made. Tomorrow the judge is going to order that we put the house up for sale, this is why we are going.
Just to clarify my frustration, in every correspodance with W's L I have cleary stated that I do not want the dog. In every single correspondance back I get: You can keep the dog, its like they are not even reading what I am telling them. My L finally called the opposing side to clarify this. Its really just so hard to understand. W keeps saying through her L that the dog can stay with the house.... ugh.... so tiresome. The house has to be sold... what doesnt she understand.
I realize that WAW/WW dont think straight, but we are at the point where she needs to make some decisions.
BTW it is me pushing for these court dates because she wont respond, I really just want to put this whole transaction behind me.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
