If she wants to cling to the notion that you gave her some kind of promise, then politely remind her she promised to stick with you "until death do us part."
She can't violate the biggest marital agreement of all and expect to hold you to a secondary marital agreement.
Originally Posted by AnotherStander
If she asks, just remind her that that was pre-marriage and is not subject to division. If she rants and raves and complains then just listen and validate. "I understand this must be very difficult for you."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
