Well I decided to congratulate him. It came from a place of sincerity. I would rather be able to look back and know I did the right thing for me than regret it. If we were divorced I'd still be proud of him and would say so. No matter the personal hurt he's caused he still worked hard and earned this promotion. So the higher road I'll walk. And besides not feeling appreciated was a complaint early on.... 180 maybe from me? Although I believe most of his emotional complaints were justifications for OW.

On the flip side of that he text me more in the last couple of days than the last week. No expectations of course just observations.


Me: 36 H: 37
M: 16 T: 17
Kids: S15 D14 D11
BD: July '18
OW confirmed Nov '18 (he told me)
H moved out Jan '19