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Telling the kids is a big milestone and I am glad you got past that reasonably well. That is probably the toughest part of this whole thing that one person is determining the future of everyone in the family. I think it becomes easier once the kids know and you can start focusing on helping them adapt
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I'm expecting some bumps in the road for sure. Missing mommy, wanting to go to mommy's house, that kind of stuff. I'm bracing to get hit with it. All I can do is be the best dad I can be and make our new house awesome for them. The kids are very young and we have a long way to go before they launch, it's going to a long haul for them shuttling between homes. I'm a pretty upbeat positive guy but I can't lie that I am bummed out over that aspect of the sitch.


H: 55 W:43
M: 8 T:12
S(11) D(8)
BD: 10/18 (ILYBINILWY)
IHS: 1/19
Physical Separation: 8/19
D FINAL: 6/21
W filed D: 4/19
Physical Separation 8/19