Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Y'all are married, what is the separation meeting bringing to the table that she isn't already aware of?


It's a question of clarity. For example, she knows I sold my company before we got married. But since she generally trusted me to handle the finances, she has a rough idea for how much, but nothing explicit. She doesn't know how that equity converted into equity in the new company, nor does she know how that equity is currently valued, and so on.

This is one of the paper cuts that caused the S; not feeling like a true partner on things.


Me: 37, WAW: 32
T: 7.5, M: 2.25
NYC
BD: 5/19/19, S: 6/21/19