Showing 180s is tough bc you risk looking like a peacock. Your 180s probably need more time to firm up so keep working. I have a feeling you haven't seen or heard the last of her.
Have you considering making plans for Friday and telling her to email you a proposal? Why is the face to face necessary? It seems like you are only going to be worse for wear after that. Isn't your time better spent elsewhere? What is so pressing about this separation agreement?
There's a bunch of things she's not going to be able to access or have insight to, such as my various illiquid assets through the sale of my company. The goal of the meeting is just to bring everything to the table, and hopefully have as productive of a conversation as possible about it. But yes, I do agree - there's no way the conversation ends with us in a better emotional place than we were before.
