I recently had a similar concern in my relationship. It’s different than when we were single, no kids, and no major commitments.
I realize we all have lives built now and we do need to give time to ourselves, and if we do, that doesn’t mean it has to do with the us.
My boyfriend back off spending time together a little because he was tired due to his commitments. I get it. I took it personally at first. We did talk it out. I backed off, he put in more effort.
The balance with so many commitments for sure is hard. She’s most likely giving you all she can right now and you have to decide if that’s enough for you
