I'm furious on your behalf. He sees someone else behind your back all this time and he comes into your house and makes PANCAKES?! What a shabby, shabby way to treat someone you're married to. I think it's a good thing you know, it will give you the determination to let go of him. Hugs, that must have been a shock but denial is a very natural reaction. You're a good person, you expect other people to be good as well. He's not, he's rotten inside.
