Well you’re right. I feel like I’ve found that balance, but I’ve just got to keep it up!
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Originally Posted by "HrtHsbnd"
So then do you really recommend just totally pulling away and loving on so that she sees that instead of being desperate?
Sandi's rule 25:
Originally Posted by "Sandi's Rule #25"
25. Listen carefully to what your spouse is really saying to you. Look them in the eyes when they talk to you. Do not interrupt them when they are speaking and stop what you may be working on to look at them when they talk. This shows them that you really care about what they are saying.
Her rules don't prescribe "totally pulling away".
It's tough finding that balance. We can only do our best.
