Yeah so I’ve been flip flopping about filing the past few days. I remember reading another vets advice that if you are flip flopping on a decision that you need to take time and really consider if it is what you want.
In regards to PA, I am fairly positive there was no PA when we were still living together. I am 50/50 on if there was an EA.
Now that we aren’t living together I view us as not in a relationship. Legally yes we are still married but idealistically we are not even in a relationship. This is just my opinion of the sitch. Yes you are almost certainly right she has since moving out most likely been seeing OP. But I have also.
So for now just going to focus on LRT and stopping the cake eating as she could be considered WW. Need to take some time and think about filing. Still uncertain if what that is what I really want.