Thank you for your responses. She is distancing again and I am not pursuing. She did come over to visit our son last week and again said that she loved me when she left. She also admitted to being very selfish after she opened up about our oldest son and her's strained relationship. This was the first time in a year that she told me of hurt on her part.
There has been no anger from me in 7 months and little before that. Honestly we rarely ever had words and never called each other names in our long relationship. I now respond if needed otherwise I listen to her talk without any negative energy.
From my story above, do you believe the bomb drop was in 2017 when she said she was faking her love and began her fall into her teenage years or was it in 9/2018 when she went totally "Crazy Town"?
I believe that she is possible ending Replay or in Depression/Withdraw. Thoughts?