The most recent funeral we attended for our brother-in-law (6/18) she seemed to be warming to me, we sat together at dinner and she seem almost wanting to reconcile by smiling and joking with me. Is that just me reading her wrong?
Good DB lesson here - you will see often: "Believe none of what they say, and half of what they do"
I spin that into: "Don't waste your time interpreting any of what they say, and only interpret that which they do consistently."
In other words... don't bother reading your W's actions at dinner. She could be warming up. She could be trying to let you down easier. She could be happy because her favorite sports team won a game earlier that day. Who knows.
So far, she has been incredibly consistent in expressing her desire to leave.
