And yes, do not talk about it, just go file. You might get lucky in that getting served papers will wake her up. Probably not though so do not have near zero expectations. Have ZERO expectations. As in, when you file for D realize that you are going to be D'd.
Finally curtis, earn your way out of this MR. Make sure you are in IC and working on yourself. Do not carry unresolved emotional baggage into your next R.
I agree in having ZERO expectations when filing. However, I feel LBS need some expectations, albeit extremely low, when DBing, otherwise there can be no hope.
Great advice on earning my way out. I’m not ready to walk away without knowing I’ve tried everything and prepared myself emotionally to move on.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
