Okay I need some advice, as I mentioned in my previous posts S4 is currently staying with my parents for the summer. I am going up to see him this weekend, my question is this. Obviously my ex-wife is no longer providing care in any way shape or form for my son from buying food and obviously not paying for daycare. It was my original intention to file a motion with the court to pause my child support until such time as she is actually paying for his care and we get him enrolled in a new daycare program. My family's advice to me was to Simply have my child support deduction shut off through my work, the concern I expressed about doing this was being found as not paying my child support by the state. My family basically said that no court in its right mind is going to rule that I should have to pay back those Monies considering my ex-wife is not caring for my son during the time that I'm not paying child support. I do not want her to profit off of this situation which is exactly what's going to happen if the court drags its feet on pausing my child support but I also don't want to get in trouble for not having paid despite the fact that I agree that they probably won't rule against me for not having paid when she doesn't have care of our son. Any advice would be appreciated
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
I agree with G, dont do it. She could have you arrested for violating your D decree. My dad just stopped paying support and my mom had him arrested. It could backfire on you horribly.
Ginger, she is not paying anything for him. He is no longer attending daycare and has been staying at my parents house for well over a week and there are no plans for him to come back until there is daycare lined up for him as it stands right now my family is providing 100% of the care for S4
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
Ginger, she is not paying anything for him. He is no longer attending daycare and has been staying at my parents house for well over a week and there are no plans for him to come back until there is daycare lined up for him as it stands right now my family is providing 100% of the care for S4
Talk to a lawyer.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
