Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Ben, that sounds really great, congrats!! Keep up with your DB'ing, that's for life. Get out, GAL, give her time and space when she needs it.

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I know this all sounds great, but I am terrified. I am so afraid to let my guard down and get hurt.


Completely understandable. No need to let your guard down right away. She needs to EARN your trust again. Give it time.



Thanks AS, even if I should always keep this in mind, it“s nice to be reminded so I can stay on track.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019