Had a great weekend with my boy, took him to see my brothers and then had a bbq in the evening with some friends. Think I’ve done a great job improving myself and my attitude, have 180d on a lot of my negative behaviors and many people are noticing and making positive comments about my changes. Feels good. Been dating a lot, getting to know new groups of friends, still crazy busy with GAL.
Got lawyer appointment later this week. I would like to learn more about mediation but I’m guessing my lawyer will push for court as that is how they make money? Part of me doesn’t want to file because I don’t feel like wasting my time and kind of want my W to do the dirty work. Going to think on this more.
So W had deactivated her facebook when we separated. I noticed Sunday morning she had popped back up and must have re activated. Side note I took off my married status from view a few months ago. I noticed she still had it public that she was married to me. Not thinking into it. I immediately blocked her lol. Not hoping for a reaction just not interested in seeing her social media.
A few hours later she called me. I was busy and didn’t answer. Didn’t call back. Later that day I dropped son off. W instantly jumped into “omg did you deactivate your FB, did you block me?” I replied that yes I had blocked her lol. Anyway we had good conversation and she initiated touch. More pursuit behavior/questions from her. Handle well I believe. W walked me to my car lol? After I had left W started texting me a bit about a funny story. I ended conversation after a few messages.
So I decided to really try to focus on LRT. I reread it and was a bit confused. Michelle specifically says that during LRT you should accept all invitations to do “family time” with the WA spouse and child. So I’m just wondering why the general opinion on the forum is that cake eating or family time should be avoided at all costs? Just looking for clarification thanks.
