Listen to AS. Do not give her an ultimatum, unless you are okay with being D'd. Do not file for D unless you are okay with being D'd.

Many LBSs have tried the "I'll file for D, or make her choose" and then are devastated when they are D'd. So make sure it is really really what you want. And yes, do not talk about it, just go file. You might get lucky in that getting served papers will wake her up. Probably no though so do not have near zero expectations. Have ZERO expectations. As in, when you file for D realize that you are going to be D'd.

Finally curtis, earn your way out of this MR. Make sure you are in IC and working on yourself. Do not carry unresolved emotional baggage into your next R.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018