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What do you mean by "tough love"? What are you planning to do differently?

My thought was to be short, not talk to her, not respond to any text, demand respect, etc.. Basically, to just stop caring anymore.


How will that work out in your mind? Seriously, read what you wrote.

Now go do those actions to anyone you know. Your sister, your friend at church, a co-worker, someone on your soccer team, the flight attendant, a waiter at a restaurant, your golf caddy, a business client, or the school bus driver.

See how they respond. Call it a social experiment. Soon you won't have a W nor will you have any friends or acquaintances.

I feel your frustration; you're hurting and you aren't sure how to deal with things. I am no expert, but I do know that treating her like that won't help you achieve one single goal you have for yourself or your desires for the future with or without her.


Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.