Thanks AS for the affirmation. KNOWING something is the right move and FEELING it is can be two different things entirely. I've been a bit emotionally up and down this weekend. Being able to come here and let all the what if's and maybes out is very helpful. I know I'm not plan B. I am plan ONLY. Being plan A implies there is still an alternative. He's just got his head in the sand. Or up his..... smile


Me: 36 H: 37
M: 16 T: 17
Kids: S15 D14 D11
BD: July '18
OW confirmed Nov '18 (he told me)
H moved out Jan '19