Friday night, while in North Bay, ex-h called me . He said D16 is crying hysterically. She packed her bags.
He had allowed her to have her phone back for a couple of days and he had to take it away from her once again. She had contacted bf and he was trying to convince her to call the cops on us and say we were hitting her. Telling her how easy it was to free herself.
Ex-h lost it. He called the bf mother and told her what her son was doing. With an attitude, she asked if ex-h was threatening her and he answered no, it' s a fact. I could have him charge with ... She said ok, i don' t want to go on that path. Tell Sarah i wish her the best.
He then gave the phone to D16 who was still hysteric and she asked me to go get her. She did not want to live there. She hates it there. The drugs were over and done. ( tone was firm and felt honest ). She said she did not give a s**t about what bf does with it. She was done 100%.
I asked : what about bf? She said: she still wants to be with him. Apparently he has not touch drugs ever since. He said he would give everything to the cops if they showed up at the door.
She wants to go back to work. She wants to get bf away from that environment he is in and spend more time here with us.
Now, i do not know what to do again. Do i give him another chance? Do i take the risk? How about ex-h who did all this for her? Barganing stage..
For now, D16 is still at ex-h's. I told her i needed to think hard about this. I would get back to her later on this week.
I have counselling in a couple of hours. I will bring it up with her and see if she can shed some light on me.
