Ah. I was thinking the "life event" was a death or a disability.
Do you work for the same real estate agency? Did you know she was trying to get the home? Did they approach her, or did she approach them?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16