That’s a really good point! I don’t need to make a big talk out of it, I can just take him aside briefly (or talk pit of ear shot of D3) and let him know when I feel he’s crossing boundaries. It’s so simple and yet somehow I hadn’t thought of it that way. It makes it simpler, takes some of the “R talk” weight out of it and makes it feel less heavy and negative. It also feels like a more detached way to approach it. That was super helpful, thank you 97!
