A marriage is not broken down after a few months. So why expect for it to be repaired that quick?
You say you used multiple approaches and none of them “worked” you tried to be nice, you stride to be stern, etc.
How about you try to be the man you really want to be? Your wife can see through you. Multiple different approaches make you look like you are just trying to do whatever to get her back. Why would she come home to that? Something that isn’t real or sustainable?
Your best approach is to really figure out the man you want to be and become him. And maybe, just maybe, she will be interested in that guy. But even if she is seriously done, already you can make some positive changes and be the guy you want to be every day.
DB isn’t a bunch of tactics to ge the spouse to come home. It’s making changes to yourself and how you interact that are true and real and maybe the WAS will want to get on board with that. Or they won’t. But either way, you walk away a better person
