Journaling: Wife had informed me that she has some business meetings out of town this Friday and Monday, so she will be out on weekend as well. So had asked me if I could keep our D for the weekend. I know that this was all lie and trying to have opportunity to spend weekend with OM. Didn't bother much other than how a person for whom D was the most important has changed to an extent that she is willing to lose time with D to be with him. Saddens my heart. Sometimes I wonder how broken from inside these OMs (in my csitch he is divorced) are as well that they don't realize what they are doing to someone's family and taking mothers away from their kids. She didn't bother to even ask how D was doing.
She messaged me in the morning that I should take D to playcenter and she can play and have fun there. Not sure what was the need to do that. I just replied saying "Have other plans". I took my D to state park and had a great time with her. Then took her for bike ride and made her favourite pasta for dinner. Life is becoming a bit easier but that void of having a companion definitely pops up sometimes. GAL and detachment continues. Communication is very minimal and just around D.
Seems like that we both (WW and I) are getting used to this new life which I and my D definitely did not want.
