Heartbroken and Struggling - Part 2

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I have another question. I have no evidence that my WAW is having an affair, but I given the percentages from people who say ILYBIANILWY, I really want to find out. Do you think I should do everything possible to find out? I am scared that I might uncover evidence that she is planning divorce. Like she is planning to file on X date, or I would read her inner thoughts to her friends that might really mess me up emotionally. What do you guys think?

Hi D. You should focus on yourself (GAL/180's and detaching) right now. Don't borrow trouble (I read that you read the bible, right? ) When you feel like snooping, remember that is not about you, it's about her and you can't control her anyway. Trust that God will reveal what you need to know when you need to know it

I agree with the advice from previous posters - leave the In-laws to her. If they call you be kind but do NOT discuss your R with them!! Just say you would prefer not to discuss it, but you are grateful for their concern.