Dilly, What do you hope will turn your situation around ? What do you think will turn your situation around?
I feel you have gone way off track . Until you firmly stand up to him he will have no respect for you . He has to realise the source of his misery is himself and not you . The GAL stuff is important, especially when he has you at his beck and call and tell him you are too busy . I would have paid his rent but I waited a day after it was due , he wants to leave his family , why you smoothing the road for him . If he was my friend I would drop him like a hot potato .
Until he awakens let him be someone else’s problem . His choice he has to deal with the consequences, just make sure you are the best option when or if he realises
