Unfortunately, I don’t know. I do know phone conversations skyrocketed in the fall. Personality changes. Heavy makeup now. Always on her phone. Heavily guarding phone. Took calls in another room away from family. Very little interaction with our child when I was there. Very mean and selfish. Very manipulative too.

What I do know is that she seems to act much more like a WW than a WAW, according to Sandi’s description.

I hope that helps.

Originally Posted by CWarrior
Originally Posted by "HrtHsbnd"
She keeps bringing up why I would think she would cheat on me, calling me insecure, badmouthing the potential OM, etc.


Hi HrtHsbnd, I'm confused. You said you believed she was cheating and gave arguments pro and con. Then you said you worried about treating her as a WW spouse and pushing her away if she's not. Then you "Let her know you know"?! How did you become certain? If you aren't, I can see how that might sound insecure. It's hard grappling with uncertainty. I've been meditating lately to avoid rash actions.