I found out that my in laws know about our marriage problems. I am not sure exactly what my wife has told them, but I am really hurt that they haven't reached out to give me any comfort. I have known them for over 20 years. What have your experiences with your inlaws been like through your problems? Do you think I should talk to them? I haven't because I am scared my wife will view it as me trying to use them to make her feel guilty and pressured.
My wife has also told the in-laws. I briefly considered reaching out to them but then thought better of it - she’s told them her version of the M, has not told them of her EA and twisted the story to absolve herself of any responsibility in her decision to D. I expect most do the same so it would be a losing battle, you are the one at fault for hurting their daughter in their eyes. At least that’s my perspective.
Her parents had a dysfunctional marriage and are divorced so I’m sure they “understand “.
