My in-laws didn’t know, but I would not have expected them to reach out to me to try to give me comfort. Honestly, I think it’s a bit odd that you expect them to.

Definitely don’t contact them.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16