I have another question. I have no evidence that my WAW is having an affair, but I given the percentages from people who say ILYBIANILWY, I really want to find out. Do you think I should do everything possible to find out? I am scared that I might uncover evidence that she is planning divorce. Like she is planning to file on X date, or I would read her inner thoughts to her friends that might really mess me up emotionally. What do you guys think?