But I don’t even know why she is unhappy!!! Shouldn’t I ask her?!?
Originally Posted by Steve85
Do you like getting kicked in jewels?
If so, ask away. But trust me, that conversation WILL not go the way you want it to.
WASs will rewrite the entire history of your relationship. Something like:
"I never loved you. I was never happy. Even when we were dating. I just thought you were a good guy and that I could learn to be happy and love you. For all X years we were together I tried, and I am just done trying. I don't want to argue about it. I do not want to discuss it. I do not want to give you false hope. I just want to D, and go our separate ways."
We've all heard a variation of that.
My advice, let it lie, take our advice and pull back, give her space. No pursuit. No pressure. GAL, Detach. 180.
Become the best you can be, not for her....for you.
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