Do not get baited into ANY interactions. You have one chance to do this right. Give her what she wants. Separation.
It is extremely important that she misses you. That she worries about you.
This will be tough, because we need to finalize and agree on the separation agreement. I'm not sure how to do that without having a conversation in person.
Let her own it. She is the one separating.
I'm not sure that's possible - there are going to be things that she won't be able to access. Additionally, I have to BD her that I am sticking firm that she has zero rights to anything pre-M.
I don't see her until Friday. When we went through the first parts of the agreement, we both realized that there's data that we both need to chase down in order to come to the table with everything that we need.
Her view is that we should get through the agreement as soon as possible, so that we can have it behind us and move on with creating space. I have zero doubt that I can fully detach and go no-contact at that point.
