Oh wow, no IHC, do not send that! First of all- wall of text! Second of all, if the two of you are having disagreements on a parenting plan then make a written one that you can both refer to in order to resolve disputes. Reading your response to her I think you are being petty to be honest. Let the incident go and draft up a written proposal that's fair to both of you.
I know I am being petty. But it is a reactive petty to her pettiness. AS why do you think I want to pull the trigger on the D so bad? Its gotten so petty around here that even the food, the dishes, and everything in between has to be accounted for. In others words. The other night she offered me a slice of pizza she ordered with her $ I accepred, then, even though fair, just expected me to do the dishes "for payment" Stuff like this has had no clear boundaries for months. If I eat even a slice of cheese, she makes a mention of it. Even though she rarely does, but if she eats anything of mine, I let it go because I am not that petty of a person, but I can very well be if someone wants to play for for tat with me.
But I will take your advice and let the email go, and make up an agreeable parenting plan.
