In addition to Sandi's wise counsel I'll just add that most WAW's feel their husband has not loved, honored and cherished them for quite some time anyway. So in their eyes, their husband is the one that broke their vows FIRST. So she very likely sees what she is doing as a REACTION to what you did.
Yep. Some of us even hear something like that come out of our wive's mouths.
Ah yes the old "chicken and the egg" issue.
My W actually said the I ended the R years ago with my withdrawn ahole-ish behavior. Now I say I was withdrawn but also always ready for a fight because of her constant harsh criticism and snide remarks. But W says she only harshly attacked me because she was trying to get her message across and prior softer attempts did not work. The I say.......blah blah and so on.
