I'm probably going to look into a mediator and consultation, and at the very least, generate a parental custodial plan myself with terms and conditions on my own, and see if she agrees to it and signs it. She has been insisting for months she wants A Legal Parenting Plan but hasn't taken any initiative whatsoever torwards on her part to initiate it. Or start the legal process, so I left it alone. Its either because she is A.) Lazy. B.) Is dealing with enough on her plate with getting house ready for sale, taking care of parents, etc. But always has the time to go out and GAL herself with whomever she sees. Or C.) Is intimidated by the legal process and also cannot afford it. She mentioned she was taking S1 to FL this summer to a friends timeshare for a week. I emailed her about it a month ago including a minor out of state document/affidavit form which takes 5 minutes to fill out which I still haven't seen yet.