M,

Space is the key to detachment. There was a point in the winter where my son had two games and my daughter had a concert and we were together 3 out of 4 days. That got me a little off kilter. The past few months there has been plenty of space so I’ve been totally indifferent. I can’t completely erase 24 years essentially 50% of my life in 11 months.

Don’t get too hard on yourself.