Steve there is no more constructive dialog to be had. The miscommunication and misunderstandings ARE LITERALLY THAT BAD!!! WE CANNOT AGREE ON ANYTHING! If I said "The sky is blue and water is wet" She will say "No its green, and I disagree." So I decided to emotionally save myself two or three weeks ago, and just not have these conversations face to face, create a boundary, and keep a record by email for accountability. The other thing is I am not the one who is keeping score, she is. I just volunteered to makeup 5 night of time with S1 from being away for work for 2 weeks. She wants me to "owe her" in a sense at her convenience for all the FLMA days she took off to care for her parents, in which I couldn't because I had to work and earn at the time.
