The efforts to me that your W put into a Father's Day gift, since the pictures are out of a drawer from 5 to 8 years ago, the effort seems half @ssed to me. But the thought is still there. I still would have expressed some appreciation for it.
I said thank you when she gave them to me. It was a total no effort situation, other than to get rid of some more stuff she doesn’t want. I’m not upset by it, I didn’t do anything for her other then swap weekends so the kids could be with her for mother’s day. They both made her things, so getting her a gift from the kids didn’t make sense to me. They already had gifts for her.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.