Thanks Job and Neffer. I'm already planning on spoiling my new grand-dude. I can't wait.

After observing the behavior of my XW over the past 9 years and especially over the last few months, I've started to wonder about something.

Many of the articles here discuss how the MLCer starts to settle down, smile again, look spouse in the eyes and stuff like that once their crisis starts to settle down. I've even noticed it in my XW lately.

While that may be true, isn't it possible that some of the changes in their behavior have to do with changes in our behavior as well?

Just a thought...

Tad

Last edited by tadpole1025; 06/21/19 01:37 AM.
Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13