LH, I read through your entire sitch. Amazing you were able to stand for that long till she filed. Also interesting that you both were intimate till you put a stop to it. That is very unusual because your sitch was like a normal couple even during IHS and yet it ended. Gives me less hope for reconciliation but I need to stop thinking about R and focus on detaching.
When did you finally tell your kids and how did they react and eventually cope?
